I Got Trolled by Angry Electricians on Facebook

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Imagine completing the project that you didn’t think you had the aptitude to do, but you learned (with the right mentor to help), grew your skills, and accomplished it.

The pride that swells through you is palpable and you can’t wait to share with your friends and family the work that you successfully completed but didn’t think you could do.

So you post it on Facebook, explaining what you learned and how you did your project, giving people a sneak peak of when the project was partially complete.

That’s what I did a couple weeks ago when I shared a few quick 30-second clips showing my Facebook community a series of Reels to explain what work has already been done and how to understand the basics of electrical wiring 101.

After all, I took two electrical wiring classes at my community college for my Carpentry program, so I wasn’t a complete novice. I understood the concepts that my instructor taught. And this project was finally an opportunity to put to use that which I had learned in the course. 

In fact, I hired my electrical wiring instructor to oversee my work, and he would do the connections to the sub panel.

You see, when COVID hit in March 2020, our Residential Wiring class was cut short. We were in the midst of learning how to run wiring in a “tiny house” in the lab of the electrical department. After running a few wires, classes were moved online and the learning stopped.

So when my 16′ x 26′ shed was built earlier this year, I didn’t feel I had the skills to do any of the wiring. That is, until my instructor agreed to provide some “professional hand holding” and oversee my wiring in the interior. This was the perfect way to continue learning that which I didn’t get the opportunity to learn to in class!

It was the project of a lifetime and I couldn’t wait to get started, with his help!

 

 

Halfway through the project, I shared with my Facebook community some of the things I had learned along the way.

I shared the difference between the colors of the wiring I used. 

I shared how I was instructed to wire the receptacles (also known as the outlets).

I showed how the feeder wires running from the house in a 24″ trench will be connected to my shed and buried.

It was pretty exciting to be able to explain what I had learned and to show the progress.

Yet, that’s when the backlash started unexpectedly. 

Imagine having strangers (AKA internet electricians) watch a single 30 second clip of your project, without any knowledge of its scope, and fire off comments to you like: 

“You should just STOP making videos. You don’t know what you’re doing.”

“You have so many code violations.”

“Just wait until you get sued when someone burns their house down.”

“You should just post a potato salad recipe.”

“You’re going to burn your shed down like Cheryl.” (Now that one was pretty funny…. )

 

 

These trolls insisted that I am not qualified to teach people online, that everything I did was wrong, that the feeder wires from the house to the shed must be placed in conduit in the trench no matter what (despite the fact that the National Electrical Code 300.7 advises that wires can be direct buried at 24″ inches, as was my trench).

They provided all kinds of advice that wasn’t relevant to my project, some of which was in direct contradiction to what my electrical instructor provided.

As if I should believe an internet electrician who saw a 30-second random clip of my project versus my electrical instructor who I discussed, at length, the scope and nature of my project.

(Not to mention that local jurisdictions can have differences in requirements; these men had no idea where I lived or in what county).

 

 

My first reaction was to clap back, to explain myself once the angry electricians started blowing up my direct messaging with insults and insisting I should have “hired a professional” without even asking if I did hire a professional.

I even tried turned off commenting on the clips because the responses were plentiful and overwhelming.

It felt like a disturbing mental blow, like my character was being attacked (I was told I only posted the videos for likes; and if you know Thrift Diving, you know I do nothing simply for “likes.”). I was even accused of lying about the rough electrical passing inspection.

It felt like my electrician’s reputation and experience was being slandered.

It felt like the inspector who came and approved the rough electrical was being thrown under the bus.

They commented on things like the framing of my shed; I was told it “looks like sh*t” as a way to insult me, since he assumed I built it.

I was made the butt of their jokes for the fact that I called my shed a “shop” because according to one guy’s opinion, a “real shop has concrete floors. You just have a big shed.”

I was even told that I made a mistake putting up recessed (potlights) lights, as if making such a choice was egregious and a huge design flaw on my part (I was well aware of the reason for my decision).

The mansplaining was insane.

 

 

I tell you all this for one reason: be kind.

There is a difference between making genuine comments or criticisms online to help someone grow or to consider new ideas versus cutting someone down in an attempt to denigrate their work, their project, or their integrity.

I appreciate the electricians who messaged me and asked questions about my project so that they could make a fair assessment of the project and to offer (what they thought) were helpful suggestions. Those discussions may have earned me some new friends and contacts to bounce ideas off of! ๐Ÿ™‚

If you’re someone who finds themselves telling someone online that their projects are “ugly” or that they “did it wrong” without offering any reference to what you think they did wrong, etc., then re-think how to handle yourself online. 

And if you see someone bashing someone unfairly online, stand up for that person. I appreciated the few men who stood in my defense and acknowledged the cleanliness of my wiring, and that everything looked to be per code.

Be the person who supports and encourages instead of attacking. 

 

The Perfect Revenge

I have to tell you the there is a happy ending to this story. Not just the fact I now have lights and electricity in my shed (yay!). (Oh, and I’ll be posting the other electrical wiring video to my channel soon. In the meantime you can watch this one). 

We bloggers and “influencers” (as we are known) have lots of opportunities with brands and companies that like to compensate us for our content that we create. I am a part of a Facebook “bonus” program that aims to help Facebook grow their Reels. As part of this program (which ends at the end of January), Facebook compensates me for each view that I receive on my Facebook Reels.

Well, because the electricians are going crazy with the insults and shares on my Reels, I decided to join that bonus program to monetize those video clips with my participation in the bonus program. ๐Ÿ™‚

And because of all the frenzy, I’ve earned a whopping $974 over the past 2 days simply from the “viral-ness” of my videos. HA!

Some of those men called me stupid. One even called me a “moron.”

Who’s the moron now? I just figured out how to make a profit off of mansplaining. ๐Ÿ˜‰

Happy New Year! 

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  1. Serena, you are the bomb. I love this “Whoโ€™s the moron now? I just figured out how to make a profit off of mansplaining.”

    Honest to goodness I am so tired of the meanness on the web. I know how easy it is to have one’s confidence dashed by these ill-advised comments. I’ve had to “clean house” a few times over the years on Facebook for just this reason. I log on to Facebook to relax and decided I had zero tolerance for bad behavior (even if we did got to high school together). Thanks for sharing your experience, and well done holding your head high and making new connections in the process. Wishing you years of joy and wonder in that fabulous shed. Happy New Year.

  2. My mother used to say “Man who says it should not or cannot be done should not interrupt woman doing it” ha ha ha Just keep doing what you’re doing, learning new skills and sharing freely with others. Mom also used to say “if they are busy kicking you in the butt they can’t get out in front of you” meaning such bozos will always be trailing never leading. AND you figured out how to make $$ off their idiocy. As an accountant and one of your fans, I say “WELL DONE”

  3. Michael R Christie says:

    Serena,

    Being a man and understanding the mentality of male morons, I can safely say that all these unkind folk are just expressing their fears over the challenge to their established macho belief systems. Probably most of them are unable to do what you have done so far, and are just trying to tear you down rather than trying to build themselves up. Much easier for them to do that.

    Myself, I am more than pleased that you have tackled the jobs that you have. It seems that you have done a lot of work to educate yourself and to plan the jobs out. In the end, you are a much better person than when you started and you are a superior role model to your family and the wider community. The same cannot be said for your detractors.

    Keep up the good work. I love your blogs.

    Michael

  4. Aw, sorry Serena, for all the unkind grumbley-ness. In a way I’m reminded of an excerpt of N.T. scripture, 1 Timothy 4:12: “Don’t let others look down on you because you’re young…” I think lots of us out here in your blog world admire all the things you tackle, but not only that, you seem to go about it as sensibly as possible: prep, reading, info-gathering. So even though grumblers gonna grumble, know that you have many admirers of your spirit of adventure & taking on projects, that, dare I say, are hard! Blessings for a happy, much brighter 2022! (I think I sent ya a set of handmade notecards fr. here in Okla. once). ๐Ÿ™‚

  5. Susan Johnson says:

    Remember those whiny little boys in your prayers and perhaps one day they will grow up to be real men. In the meantime you just keep on doing what you’re doing so well.

  6. Lameqa Vogt says:

    Serena, I love watching you and reading your post. I follow you on all platforms and you highly inspire me to continue to be a bad ass female that can do what the men do (to a certain degree). Iโ€™ve always worked in a male dominant field. Some Iโ€™ve made friends and most Iโ€™ve intimidated. Thereโ€™s a polite way to sayโ€hey, good job but let me give you some pointersโ€ and for those guys not to take that approach when they do not know you, letโ€™s me further believe that they are just intimidated and jealous that youโ€™re a female and willing to learn and possibly do it better than they could ever do it. Keep on doing what youโ€™re doing and let their wives figure out how to boil an egg. Love you lady.

  7. Linda L Leeke says:

    in this day and time I am so not surprised. You are amazing, your work amazing and you know where to ask for help. Your shed/shop is amazing and these so called me are boys in a sandbox they cannot get out of . Ignore.. ignore ignore and if you have a good potato salad recipe then make and share it … show them you can wire and make great food, what can they do ? lol sit behind a screen and insult a very talented, good woman … no character there… keep it up …

  8. I’m always impressed by your projects. I love to think if I wanted I could do that too. You are an inspiration! Keep it up!

  9. Suzzanne Nellans says:

    My very first emotion and inclination were to protect you in any way I could, against these fools. I just wanted to get them back in some way. REVENGE! “Mess with SERENA!?! I don’t THINK so!!! That’s my friend buddy”! but then as I read your blog I calmed down a bit and realized the best revenge is, as my Mom used to say, “Kill em with kindness!!” Me? I rather slit their tires open, but if I go down to their level, then how does that help anyone? The BEST revenge is that you continue to learn and to prove that women can do it just as well as men can! The only way in which men can excel better is USUALLY they have better upper body strength and even then if you go to the gym and lift free weights… In my early 30’s I used to lift weights and had a natural upper body strength so could do a lot of my own lifting. [Anyway, I’m babbling. Serena, I think you’re doing the best thing you can: ignore them, don’t react, and eventually, they will get bored and go away/. However, if that doesn’t work, contacting the authorities is another good alternative, and you ROCK for all that you do; and especially for hooking up the electricity in your shed. My house was hit by lightning and ever since I have been super super scared of electrical things, even changing lightbulbs, but I’m thinking now, since I just bought a house, that I’m going to have to get past those fears and I just changed some lights out in my house and now I have some amazing sputnik chandelier, and your VIDEOS is why! It just helped me, as a woman, have confidence!

  10. Truly Serena, youโ€™re an inspiration for many who donโ€™t feel they have what it takes to tackle such projects. You show us that stepping out of our comfort zones can yield amazing results – even if we stumble along the way. Thank you! Keep doing you!

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