I Got Trolled by Angry Electricians on Facebook
Imagine completing the project that you didn’t think you had the aptitude to do, but you learned (with the right mentor to help), grew your skills, and accomplished it.
The pride that swells through you is palpable and you can’t wait to share with your friends and family the work that you successfully completed but didn’t think you could do.
So you post it on Facebook, explaining what you learned and how you did your project, giving people a sneak peak of when the project was partially complete.
That’s what I did a couple weeks ago when I shared a few quick 30-second clips showing my Facebook community a series of Reels to explain what work has already been done and how to understand the basics of electrical wiring 101.
After all, I took two electrical wiring classes at my community college for my Carpentry program, so I wasn’t a complete novice. I understood the concepts that my instructor taught. And this project was finally an opportunity to put to use that which I had learned in the course.
In fact, I hired my electrical wiring instructor to oversee my work, and he would do the connections to the sub panel.
You see, when COVID hit in March 2020, our Residential Wiring class was cut short. We were in the midst of learning how to run wiring in a “tiny house” in the lab of the electrical department. After running a few wires, classes were moved online and the learning stopped.
So when my 16′ x 26′ shed was built earlier this year, I didn’t feel I had the skills to do any of the wiring. That is, until my instructor agreed to provide some “professional hand holding” and oversee my wiring in the interior. This was the perfect way to continue learning that which I didn’t get the opportunity to learn to in class!
It was the project of a lifetime and I couldn’t wait to get started, with his help!
Halfway through the project, I shared with my Facebook community some of the things I had learned along the way.
I shared the difference between the colors of the wiring I used.
I shared how I was instructed to wire the receptacles (also known as the outlets).
I showed how the feeder wires running from the house in a 24″ trench will be connected to my shed and buried.
It was pretty exciting to be able to explain what I had learned and to show the progress.
Yet, that’s when the backlash started unexpectedly.
Imagine having strangers (AKA internet electricians) watch a single 30 second clip of your project, without any knowledge of its scope, and fire off comments to you like:
“You should just STOP making videos. You don’t know what you’re doing.”
“You have so many code violations.”
“Just wait until you get sued when someone burns their house down.”
“You should just post a potato salad recipe.”
“You’re going to burn your shed down like Cheryl.” (Now that one was pretty funny…. )
These trolls insisted that I am not qualified to teach people online, that everything I did was wrong, that the feeder wires from the house to the shed must be placed in conduit in the trench no matter what (despite the fact that the National Electrical Code 300.7 advises that wires can be direct buried at 24″ inches, as was my trench).
They provided all kinds of advice that wasn’t relevant to my project, some of which was in direct contradiction to what my electrical instructor provided.
As if I should believe an internet electrician who saw a 30-second random clip of my project versus my electrical instructor who I discussed, at length, the scope and nature of my project.
(Not to mention that local jurisdictions can have differences in requirements; these men had no idea where I lived or in what county).
My first reaction was to clap back, to explain myself once the angry electricians started blowing up my direct messaging with insults and insisting I should have “hired a professional” without even asking if I did hire a professional.
I even tried turned off commenting on the clips because the responses were plentiful and overwhelming.
It felt like a disturbing mental blow, like my character was being attacked (I was told I only posted the videos for likes; and if you know Thrift Diving, you know I do nothing simply for “likes.”). I was even accused of lying about the rough electrical passing inspection.
It felt like my electrician’s reputation and experience was being slandered.
It felt like the inspector who came and approved the rough electrical was being thrown under the bus.
They commented on things like the framing of my shed; I was told it “looks like sh*t” as a way to insult me, since he assumed I built it.
I was made the butt of their jokes for the fact that I called my shed a “shop” because according to one guy’s opinion, a “real shop has concrete floors. You just have a big shed.”
I was even told that I made a mistake putting up recessed (potlights) lights, as if making such a choice was egregious and a huge design flaw on my part (I was well aware of the reason for my decision).
The mansplaining was insane.
I tell you all this for one reason: be kind.
There is a difference between making genuine comments or criticisms online to help someone grow or to consider new ideas versus cutting someone down in an attempt to denigrate their work, their project, or their integrity.
I appreciate the electricians who messaged me and asked questions about my project so that they could make a fair assessment of the project and to offer (what they thought) were helpful suggestions. Those discussions may have earned me some new friends and contacts to bounce ideas off of! ๐
If you’re someone who finds themselves telling someone online that their projects are “ugly” or that they “did it wrong” without offering any reference to what you think they did wrong, etc., then re-think how to handle yourself online.
And if you see someone bashing someone unfairly online, stand up for that person. I appreciated the few men who stood in my defense and acknowledged the cleanliness of my wiring, and that everything looked to be per code.
Be the person who supports and encourages instead of attacking.
The Perfect Revenge
I have to tell you the there is a happy ending to this story. Not just the fact I now have lights and electricity in my shed (yay!). (Oh, and I’ll be posting the other electrical wiring video to my channel soon. In the meantime you can watch this one).
We bloggers and “influencers” (as we are known) have lots of opportunities with brands and companies that like to compensate us for our content that we create. I am a part of a Facebook “bonus” program that aims to help Facebook grow their Reels. As part of this program (which ends at the end of January), Facebook compensates me for each view that I receive on my Facebook Reels.
Well, because the electricians are going crazy with the insults and shares on my Reels, I decided to join that bonus program to monetize those video clips with my participation in the bonus program. ๐
And because of all the frenzy, I’ve earned a whopping $974 over the past 2 days simply from the “viral-ness” of my videos. HA!
Some of those men called me stupid. One even called me a “moron.”
Who’s the moron now? I just figured out how to make a profit off of mansplaining. ๐
Happy New Year!
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No matter how good you are or how wonderfully youโve executed a project, there will always be some jacka$$ man telling you itโs not right. I think men are starting to realize that we can do all the things that they can do and itโs intimidating them. What do we need them for if we can do it ourselves? Strong confident men encourage women, weak men try to convince you that you need a man. You do amazing work, you push yourself to learn and you inspire people who may be scared to try something. Electricians learn what to do by having someone teach them not by having man parts. You are learning just like they did. But unlike them, you are sharing and encouraging people not trying to rip people to pieces. I hope the support you are receiving drowns out the irrelevant opinions of the pathetic men. You are loved, supported and admired!!!
Tonia, you said it best! Serena, you’ve done so much to give us confidence, support and inspire us. My suggestion? Call out those who send insulting and moronic comments. Post their names and comments so we know who they are.
Keep up the excellent and amazing work, Serena!
My Mom wired the houses that my Dad built and fixed all electrical stuff in the 1930-1980’s around their homes too. Luckily I watched how she did it and now I still fix all the electrical stuff around my home at the ripe old age of 78. Neither one of us has ever had a fire or mishap.
Serena-You are amazing! You have done so many more projects than I ever would, but I give you a LOT of credit for trying and succeeding. I LOVE your shed and am envious. Probably I won’t ever have a shed of my own, BUT I do believe I will have a special place for all my crafts and painting supplies-within in our next house. No point in building a shed of my own in this location since we will be moving within a year. That’s okay!
I appreciate ALL you post and am very interested in your projects. I believe I told you in Aug-Sept of 2021 my biggest project I ever tackled was painting our house (still have a small portion to do). I did it all by myself and had many, many compliments given to me as drivers passed by. I was thrilled and very happy to have others appreciate all my hard work.
Do you wonder what those men were doing reading about your electrical project? Don’t they have jobs? Have they ever done any electric work themselves? They sound jealous, don’t you think?
I’m so sorry you were on the receiving end of some really nasty people! Unfortunately today, people feel that they are entitled to be absolutely insulting and obnoxious due the essentially anonymous nature of social media. By the way you can call your building a shed, a shop, or whatever you want!! Who are those nasty people? The shop police? By the way, it looks beautiful as all your projects!
All I can say is this: You handled it like the Pro you are! I totally dislike men who have to talk-down to women. I fact I had that happen to me last week, over the phone. A younger man, who showed lack of respect and kindness. Over a simple question! I haven’t addressed it yet, I’v been waiting to cool off first:)
You keep on doing what you are doing & I promise you your followers will keep learning from you! I read something last week which said when a person is rude, it doesn’t really say anything about you – it’s all about them!
Happy New Year, Selena!
I’m so sorry you have to deal with these nasty comments. Good for you that you own your feminine power and made their mansplaining work to your advantage :). You do amazing projects and have much to be proud of.
Wishing you many happy years in your She Shed.
You are an inspiration and I love following your projects all the way from Cape Town.
Happy New Year! You’ve done an outstanding job on the shop. Don’t let others rain on your parade. You’re awesome, never forget that!
Serena, just remember what you know in your heart to be true. The internet unfortunately provides a platform for people who probably have many issues to make themselves feel better by belittling others. They may feel like commenting without one iota of knowledge or a thought to you or your project. These people are not important in your life, their opinions mean nothing, and whilst hurtful, if you can learn to see them for what they are. You can choose how you let them make you feel. Choose to feel sorry for them and take strength from those around you whose opinion of you might matter to you (close family for eg.). Look at the positives ($$$ and channel engagement) and move on. The above is easy to type but harder to do. Keep practicing and asking yourself if their opinion of you matters to you and soon it wonโt feel so bad. YOU ROCK,!!!
You may be the only human in history to find a way to monetize mansplaining! WELL DONE!!! Great job on the shed, and fabulous job on the wiring!!
Mom says that the best revenge in life is living well. Go Serena. Keep pressing forward and you have folk that will keep pressing play for you