If you’re a blogger, and you’re passionate and serious about it, you’d be a fool to not attend at least one blogging conference during the year.
Your worst enemy at a blogging conference is SHYNESS. Get out of your confort zone and sit with people you don’t know. Don’t be afraid to turn to them and ask them about their blog, their city, their children–anything that will open the gates of communication. Laugh well, and laugh often. One of my roommates, Ally, whose every other word was “f*ck,” was the funniest chick I’ve met in a long time! We had such a good time that I can only hope that she and I party it up at BlogHer 2013 in Chicago next July!
|Ally and me acting stupid at CheeseburgHER, in the photo booth.|
|My blogger running buddies that I met while at BlogHer — Renita on the left, and Roni in the middle.|
|Ally and me at the Naughty Monkey party.|
|A duet of karaoke in the Expo Hall|
This one seems like a given, but seriously–whenever else are you going to get to meet a huge group of people that share your same passion for blogging? This is your opportunity to exchange business cards. Connect! Find out what’s up-and-coming in your niche. And most importantly, don’t let that synergy end at the conference–hit ’em up on Twitter, post on their blog, do blog exchanges. If you do this part right, you could walk away with at least 30 new contacts, if not more, if you’re at the top of your game!
|Just a handful of cards I collected…..There….are……MORE!|
3. Play Dress Up!
Flip-flops were the main fashion staple on everyone’s feet. And yes, I rocked the flat wear to save feet, too. But, come on…..Getting away from home for a 4-day trip without your hubby or kids, in a big ‘ole exciting city warrants a girl wearing her best heels, at least for an hour, before your feet start killing you! Don’t be a frump-a-dump. Wear your best clothes. It’s a special occasion! And you’re making a first impression. Tomorrow you can go back to wrinkled t-shirts and “mom” shorts.
|Sexy heels are a must, at least for 1 hour….|
|…but comfort prevails when you’re headed home, tired as hell.|
The amount of swag you get at a conference is mind-blowing–free food, free make-up, free vibrators, coupons, gift cards –Um, wait–free vibrators?? Yeah, that’s not a typo. In the Expo hall, one of the sponsors, Eden Fantasy, was giving out vibrators. Who can turn that down?? Of course, in return, some of the sponsors wanted you to Tweet out about their company in turn for their swag, with pictures of yourself promoting their stuff, like this pic:
|I got free fake eyelashes while at BlogHer, thanks to KISS. They looked awesome!!!|
|I filled my whole suitcase with “swag” (i.e. free stuff from sponsors)!|
5. Meet Sponsors!
|Bowlopolis representative at the BlogHer parties. — EDITED: OMG….I thought this was a representative. This is freakin’ Chris Barnes, professional bowler! LMAO at my mistake!!!!! Thank God I played it off well……..|
|Hanging out at the Martha Stewart sponsor booth|
|Girls just wanna have fun at BlogHer!|
|Sippin’ a beer uninterrupted.|
|MMMMmmmmmmmmm nom nom nom…..|
7. Learn a Thing or Two!
I bet you’ve never challenged a street vendor to push-ups at 2 a.m. on the dirty corner of a huge city (wearing a dress, at that). Yeah, me neither. Until BlogHer 2012.
9. Discover a city.
Most big conferences take place in a large metropolis. This is a great opportunity to visit a new city and to explore what it has to offer! Next year, BlogHer 2013 will be in Chicago. I’ve never been there. But you can damn well bet I’ll be exploring Chicago next year!
|It’s not true that this is the “city that never sleep”–ironically, we couldn’t find any food places opened past 11p.m. (other than street vendors) in the area of the Hilton New York hotel (approx 55th st. and 6th Ave)! LOL|
It’s hard to say what makes one person so passionate about blogging, while the next person would moan and groan being tasked with writing a blog, and would never be so forthcoming to complete strangers in the blogosphere. But if you’re one of the lucky ones to become afflicted with this desire to inspire….this desire to reach out….this desire to be heard….then it’s only right that you pursue it. You must. If you don’t, you’re cheating yourself.
|Ready for another big day of conferences! (Day #2)|
|Is that a cake?? (At Sparklecorn)|
|I tried to sneak into the Hasbro party and ended up wasting 30 minutes or more in this long-ass line.|
|A trip to NYC warrants a trip to Mood, where Project Runway films their mad-dashes to buy fabric for challenges.|
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